On this page you will find suggested packages of work to
do by email. These packages have to do with clearing the
way for our lives to work in more of the way we would like.
Remember you don't have to choose packages when you work
by phone. These are ideas only meant to help you find what
works best for you if you want to work by email.
Here is the List of our Living Life Packages. Click on
their name to read more about them.
Life
Transitions - $180.00
Someone once said
that the only constant in life is change. That concept
is the basis for this package. We are working on clearing
beliefs that keep us stuck in situations that are no longer
working.
Transitions can be anything;
- From relationships ending to relationships
beginning
- From adding or loosing children
to adding or loosing pets.
- From changing jobs to changing
homes.
- From living with chronic illness
to dying.
- From changing careers to changing
schools.
- From begriming a fitness program
to beginning a diet.
- From growing to healing.
Every decision we make creates new
dimensions in our lives. The more we are able to embrace
change, the easier our lives will be and the more we can
experience life as an adventure.
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HOC:
Accepting and Integrating change: What
else is there to say? Becoming more flexible internally
is like squirting our lives with WD40. <grin>
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HOC:
Impatience: This issue seems to come
with the territory. So many times we know we need to
make a change, and drag our feet. Then suddenly, we
make the decision to change and we want it to magically
move from what it was to what we want and resist the
inevitable time it takes to get from point A to point
B.
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HOC:
Letting Go and Grieving: We sometimes
overlook the need to grieve what we are choosing to
release. Grieving is important to our emotional balance.
Grieving is becoming aware of our part in the process
of moving forward. When we resist letting go, we get
stuck holding on to too many things, which shows up
as frustration and even exhaustion.
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Releasing Illusion: Many times once
we decide to let go, we look back only to realize that
what we were actually holding on to had very little
to do with what we thought we were attached to. One
example of this issue is in children becoming adults
and holding on to their imaginary, ideal parent. We
can get frozen in our lives trying to earn that illusion's
approval or love.
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Surrender and Integration: This is a
deep one. As we let go of old things, we are learning
to surrender our fears and trust in the process, whatever
that may be. We are consciously choosing to allow change
to nestle into our hearts and become a chosen part of
who we are becoming.
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Self Responsibility: In this context
we are focusing on remembering who we are and who we
are creating ourselves to become. We are recognizing
that we are ultimately responsible for everything that
happens in our lives, (yes, everything) and the other
side of this coin is self empowerment. When we realize
that we are the author of our own lives, then we realize
that we can change the way our story writes itself.
Most of us are
wanting more abundance and prosperity than we currently
have in our lives. This package centers around clearing
away those blocks and beliefs that are standing in
your way. Consider this an important step in the process
of changing your status from what you have come to
believe is "all there is" to learning how
to bring your wishes into your reality.
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Either
HOC: Anxiety
or HOC:
Depression: Many people are dealing
with either anxiety or depression in the area of
money and career. Some even need both of these Houses
of Cards. If you believe you need both, then add
$30.00 to the price of this Package, or you may
decide to have it done later at the normal rate
of $39.00.
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HOC:
Receiving: In the context of abundance
and prosperity, receiving is, to say the least,
important. If you have trouble receiving you may
actually push away abundance and even opportunities
that may lead to abundance.
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Finding My Passion: This is one
of the keys to being happy in life. Allowing yourself
to know and live in your passion, as well as, bring
in prosperity may be a foreign concept to you. Give
yourself the gift of an open mind and an open heart,
allow your perceptions and beliefs to change in
this area. Your world will never be the same.
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HOC:
Motivation: This House of Cards
addresses HOW you motivate yourself. Are you currently
one who scares yourself into doing what you think
needs to be done? Maybe you threaten yourself with
worst case scenarios if you mess up. Can you imagine
how much happier you will be when you are motivating
yourself with love and excitement? What a joy to
easily complete a task and enjoy feeling good about
your efforts.
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Abundance: Finally, we are ready
to clear those old vows and oaths of poverty you
may have taken in your efforts to find your path
in previous life times. Now is your chance to clear
out those beliefs that seem like facts that keep
you strapped for cash and/or feeling poverty stricken.
Many clients report feeling like they have money,
even though their bank account is about the same.
This ingredient of FEELING abundant is one of the
most powerful keys we know of to manifest abundance.
When you FEEL happy, you are drawing more happiness
to you. When you FEEL abundant, you draw more abundance
to you.
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Opportunity
Beacon:
Now you are clear of the blocks to abundance, you
are ready to take it all in. What you need now is
to create abundance pipelines flowing toward you.
This Beacon broadcasts who you are, what you have
to offer. At the same time it is an advertisement
for who and what situations you are seeking. Bet
you have never ran an ad like this one!
This is for you
if you are in your life's career, or in the midst
of creating your dream job. You know what you want
to do, and yet you know you have some things that
need to be dusted away.
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HOC:
Communications: This clearing is
all about communicating in a business setting. Giving
and receiving instructions from those around you,
as well as hearing what others are saying with less
of that nagging issue of taking things personally
when the motivation was "purely business"
on the part of the speaker.
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HOC:
Motivation and Procrastination:
We all deal with getting through life and making
progress in a days work. When we lack confidence,
worry about our performance and have nightmares
about forgetting something. these anxieties can
play out in ways that slow or even stop our productivity.
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HOC:
Confidence: Speaking of confidence.
is your hiding behind that expensive business suit?
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HOC:
Authority and Power: Whether you
are the big cheese or the mouse in the corner of
your work world, you are likely wrestling with how
to interact with those in power and those with influence.
Clearing this cluster can begin the process of making
sense of this often confusing terrain.
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HOC:
Judging vs Discernment; In the world
of business we are often faced with needing to know
the difference between those we can trust and those
who may be watching out for their own needs at the
expense of ours. When we our balance between believing
the best of others and suspecting trouble in every
corner, we may inadvertently set ourselves up for
trouble. Becoming clearer about the differences
between being judgmental and using our discernment
skills gives us a strong center from which to draw
our strength.
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HOC:
Deserving Respect and Abundance:
Knowing that we have something that others respect
is fundamental to our inner awareness of our value
as a person. Money is only a small facet of the
expression of worth our world has discovered. Choosing
to feel respect within our being is our own individual
choice. The more we are able to believe in our own
worth, the more others are able to buy into our
belief. When we all have a knowing of what something
is worth, we are all winners; both the one who buys
and the one who sells.
College
Students - $180.00
You have decided
that you need to get those letters after your name.
This package is a great way to help ease the fundamental
stresses of college expectations.
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HOC:
Learning: This clearing is all about
helping to open up your mind and take in new information.
We need to release those anxieties about "doing
it right" or maybe even being afraid of learning
about something we have always thought was useless
information, or even dark or evil.
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HOC:
Fear of Failure: Can you believe
our world actually uses "F" to let us
know without a doubt that we have "Failed"?
This clearing is about letting go of even the more
subtle ways we can "fail" ourselves and
others. In my way of thinking, there really is no
such thing as "failing", only opportunities
for learning and growing. Hmm, I think somebody
famous said something like this. <smile>
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HOC:
Mental Clarity: This cluster is
about allowing your full intellectual potential
to merge with your deep passion for knowledge. When
we are excited about learning, then we can drink
in new ideas with great speed and clarity.
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HOC:
Test Anxiety: In my opinion, more
than just a small part of making it to graduation
day is the ability to take a test. This clearing
is designed to help you let go of your fears around
missing the answers, and focus on connecting with
your entire being to the material at hand. This
is about allowing what you have learned to bubble
to the surface to be expressed to others. It's all
about allowing yourself to flow with what you know.
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HOC:
Motivation and Procrastination:
To make it through school, we need to be able to
meet deadlines and keep on going to the next steps.
So many of us motivate ourselves with fear, anxiety
and even dramas that we create in our minds to spur
us on. This clearing is about loving ourselves,
and changing the way we move through life.
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HOC:
Finding my Passion: When we decide
to spend years of our life focused on a specific
field of interest, it's a good idea to dust away
confusing signals from other parts of ourselves.
We can sometimes discover that we are choosing our
parents' passion, or even something that we think
is within our intellectual capacity, yet not our
heart's calling. Now it's time to clear the way
to your own heart, and hear clearly the cries of
joy, and see fireworks in your mind when you touch
the areas of your deepest interests.
Searching
for Soulmates
This is the package
you are looking for if you are ready to find new relationships,
including friends, not limiting yourself to romance
only. The focus here is clearing away old energies,
and embracing new ones.
If you are still
in a relationship, or wanting out of one and hoping
for a new one, this is NOT
the package for you.
This work is all
about focusing on yourself, to become the person you
want to become. This is about getting crystal clear
about who you want in your life and then bringing
those people into your life.
Yes, you read
it right. I'm talking about bringing more than one
person into your life. This is about bringing people
into your life that support you in being true to yourself,
and that may be more than one person. You may choose
just one person to spend your time with in a romantic
relationship, that's up to you. This package is about
creating space in your heart that is so inviting that
others will want to get to know you better.
One of the best
ways I know of to support your own growth is to surround
yourself with people who are also interested in becoming
more true themselves. Two well-balanced individuals
choosing to spend time together because being together
supports their individual growth is my definition
of creating healthy and sturdy relationships.
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HOC:
Letting Go, Grieving: Even if you
are searching for your first relationship and you
feel like you have nothing to let go of or grieve,
you probably do. We all have had childhoods and
we need to let go of our need for our parents' approval,
just as an example of things we need to release
to clear ourselves.
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HOC:
Relationships (Intimate): This is
all about clearing out those fears of trusting another
person with your heart.
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HOC:
Identity: Take your power, own your
space, choose to inhabit this body and become who
you are independent of anyone else. When your identity
is solid your relationships are stronger.
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HOC:
Giving, Receiving: The more in balance
these energies are within you, the more in balance
they will be in your relationships.
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Giving
- Receiving Switch Though this
one sounds like it is the same as the House of Cards
about Giving and Receiving, it is completely different.
With this one, many people notice much more choice
and the ability to bring to consciousness when they
are giving and when they are receiving, and to choose
what is in line with their hearts in that moment.
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Soulmate
Beacon With all you have done
within yourself you are ready to get serious about
making your intentions known to the universe, clearly
and concisely.
Here are a few extra Houses of Cards you may want
to consider before creating your Soulmate Beacon.
These are not
included in the package price, However, if you order
them all at once you can take advantage of Limited
time Special.
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HOC: Abandonment:
So often we are afraid those we love most will leave
us. Many times this fear has roots in our childhood.
Parents don't have to physically abandon a child to
play a role in this issue. Emotional absence, or emotional
attachment can be just as devastating to our development.
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HOC: Jealousy,
Insecurity: Another fear-based dynamic
that can cause so much pain. When we realize that we
are insecure, we can begin to heal ourselves, and release
our often innocent partner from our constant vigil.
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HOC: Sexuality
(specify gender): We, as a society,
learn about sexuality in some often inefficient and
even destructive ways. This clearing is a strong first
step to your own healing. We are spirits living in a
human body, and loving our bodies, even daring to enjoy
them, can be a challenge if we have been raised in shame.
- HOC: Anger: In
Relationships, anger can show up as a brilliant way for
us to know something isn't working between two people.
However, when anger is out of balance, it is experienced
as painful to its target.
- HOC: Childhood Trauma:
When we choose another person with whom
to share our lives we invariably discover ourselves reliving
our own childhood wounds. If these wounds are left open
and painful, we can get confused as to where that pain
actually comes from. These issues are often deep and layered.
Clearing the beliefs is a powerful beginning to a much
deeper healing.
Supporting
Healthy Relationships
This is the one
for you if you are happy in your relationship and
you want it to be even stronger, more in balance and
more trusting. This work will be most effective if
both of you have your own individual package done.
Because the clearings of Karma, soul contracts and
soul fragments, between you both can be done at the
same time, that saves me time and you money.
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HOC:
Communications; This belief cluster
is all about how we interact with this special person.
We all have ways of communicating with others, and
much of our "style" of communication is
based on what we believe about ourselves and others.
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HOC:
Compassion and vulnerability; The
more we are able to empathize with our partner,
the more we can connect. If our partner is also
skilled at empathizing, this creates an emotional
safety between both people; vulnerability then becomes
a gentle next step.
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HOC:
Defensiveness and Anger: Even great
relationships have some bumps in them at times.
This clearing is about listening to our anger and
understanding it as a symptom of a deeper issue.
Anger is caused by what we are thinking, which is
often times an distortion of what actually is. These
distortions are often based on past experiences
reflecting those we associate with pain.
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HOC:
Judging and being judged: We can
cause ourselves and others so much unnecessary pain
when we jump to painful conclusions based on little
or no information. We sometimes add interpretations
to innocent observations. Becoming aware of how
we judge others can allow us the opportunity to
release these illusions and replace them with a
much brighter reality.
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HOC:
Co dependency: The "C"
word! Every relationship, in my most humble opinion,
has issues that are powerful growing mediums for
co dependency. This clearing will start taking the
edge off this confusing area, and help you being
to be more aware of when you are participating in
co dependency. Recognizing your role and finding
new ways of loving is a challenge and oh so worth
it!
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Clearing
between 2 people: Karma,
Soul Contracts, Soul Fragments. (Counts as 3 Items)
This clearing is highly recommended between two
people at any time, and especially those who want
to be working on only this life time's issues. Clearing
these past connections relieves that sensation of
obligation and supports our efforts to find our
identity WHILE being in a committed relationship.
This clearing is done for each individual, as well
as clearing as a couple. When I do this work on
just one person, the clearings may affect the other
person as well, if they allow the clearing to happen.
However, when both people want the clearing at a
conscious level, then I can do all three clearings
for both people at the same time. That saves me
time, and saves you money.
The following items are not
included in the package price, However, if you order
them all at once you can take advantage of Limited
time Special.
- HOC:
Abandonment: So often we are afraid
those we love most will leave us. Many times this
fear has roots in our childhood. Parents don't have
to physically abandon a child to play a role in this
issue. Emotional absence, or emotional attachment
can be just as devastating to our development.
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HOC:
Jealousy, Insecurity: Another fear-based
dynamic that can cause so much pain. When we realize
that we are insecure, we can begin to heal ourselves,
and release our often innocent partner from our
constant vigil.
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HOC:
Sexuality (specify gender): We,
as a society, learn about sexuality in some often
inefficient and even destructive ways. This clearing
is a strong first step to your own healing. We are
spirits living in a human body, and loving our bodies,
even daring to enjoy them, can be a challenge if
we have been raised in shame.
- HOC:
Anger: In Relationships, anger can
show up as a brilliant way for us to know something
isn't working between two people. However, when anger
is out of balance, it is experienced as painful to
its target.
- HOC:
Childhood Trauma: When we choose another
person with whom to share our lives we invariably
discover ourselves reliving our own childhood wounds.
If these wounds are left open and painful, we can
get confused as to where that pain actually comes
from. These issues are often deep and layered. Clearing
the beliefs is a powerful beginning to a much deeper
healing.
I have 4 kids, and a childhood filled with pain. I know the strength and courage we need to heal ourselves and to break those patterns our parents handed down to us. This package is not about blaming our parents, nor is it about blaming us AS parents.
If you are wanting to be a better parent, teach your children how to be happy and create their own bountiful lives, then you are right where you belong. Healing yourself first, is how we will not only heal our families, but this is how we will heal our world.
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HOC:
Childhood Trauma: When we choose
another person with whom to share our lives we invariably
discover ourselves reliving our own childhood wounds.
If these wounds are left open and painful, we can
get confused as to where that pain actually comes
from. These issues are often deep and layered. Clearing
the beliefs is a powerful beginning to a much deeper
healing.
- HOC: Assertiveness
and Setting Boundaries: Children need
structure to help them feel secure in the world. Structure
need not be harsh punishment. We can learn to be strong
and loving as we say "no" to those we love.
We can learn to set boundaries that define both "yes"
and "no". The more we are able to keep the
lines clearly set, the easier our children will be
able to design their own character.
- HOC: Control vs Respect:
Many of us have grown up believing
that children need to be controlled. We may have trouble
moving into a deeper relationship with our children
as they grow up and demand, and deserve, our respect.
This clearing is crucial to the process of nurturing
an ever-changing relationship with our infants, who
become toddlers, who become teens, only to become
fully independent adults.
- HOC: Power vs Force:
Yet another facet of the gem of discipline.
We are the adults, and we choose this responsibility
of bringing up our children the best way we know how.
The way we interact with them is modeling how to handle
power in relationships. Many of us are adults who
have been raised by parents who did not understand
how they were teaching us about power. Now we can
clear the basic beliefs that hold these confusing
messages in place in our own lives. As we make more
sense out of our understanding of healthy power, we
will be raising a more balanced generation.
- HOC: Communications
(Family): The language between parent
and child is ever evolving. It begins with smiles
and cooing only to merge into "why" and
then to "who says" and on into "No
Way!" finally to come into some degree of "Now
that I have my own children..". Being flexible
in our communications with others takes empathy, discernment,
trust and a willingness to make mistakes.
- HOC: Discerning vs
Judging: As our little ones grow up,
they try new things, and demand more from us as well
as from themselves. Especially during the teen years,
we need to learn how to know when we are judging them
with a built in negative spin, and when we are discerning
that what they are doing may truly hurt them. Discernment
is about respect. Judging is about our own opinions.
Health and Aging - $210.00
Whether you have a serious illness or you simply want to clear away the cobwebs of aging, this package is a great step to take in supporting your body and its connection to your mind and spirit.
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Either
HOC: Anxiety
or HOC:
Depression: Many people are dealing
with either anxiety or depression in the area of
health and aging. Some even need both of these Houses
of Cards. If you believe you need both, then add
$30.00 to the price of this Package, or you may
decide to have it done later at the normal rate
of $39.00.
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HOC:
Aging: We are getting older, that's
just the way it works. However, many of us have
beliefs about growing old that can make a vast difference
in how we age. Are you one who believes getting
old means getting sick? You may be defining your
age as old way before you need to thus sending a
message to the universe that your intention is to
get old and sick very soon.
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Deactivate
Termination Clock: You've heard
the expression, "My number isn't up yet."
There seems to be a "clock" within us
that is set for a certain age. If our Termination
clock is set for 66 your body may begin to shut
down at 64. However, if that clock were deactivated,
your body would have no need to shut down simply
due to an internal clock.
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HOC:
Birth, death, near death; Now
is the chance to clear way those traumas around
birth and death, beginning and ending. Even if
you believe you had a "normal" birth,
it is still a trauma. Have you almost died? Have
you died and been revived? sometimes near-death
experiences can be a positive experience, in some
cases you may need to clear the trauma all around
that experience.
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HOC:
Fear of Dying, death wish; In
previous lives, we sometimes have varying views
of death. We may think of it as an escape. Some
have lived in cultures where dying is an honor.
What we need is a clarity around death, so that
we have more choices about how we live.
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HOC:
Suffering, Martyrdom: Are you
one of those people who seems to always be in
pain, emotionally, physically even spiritually?
Do you find yourself putting yourself last, if
at all. You probably have some old vows and oaths
around suffering. That's old energy, let it go.
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HOC:
Health: Now we are ready to clear
any other blocks to healing that you may have
in the area of health. We encourage you to continue
working with your health professionals during
this process. If your health situation has improved,
that is wonderful! We would love to hear your
story! Even so, the purpose of this Pathway Package
is to support any other work you are doing, as
opposed to replacing your health practitioners
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